Each group has but one primary purpose—to carry the message to the alcoholic/addict who still suffers.
Our primary purpose as individuals is to stay clean and sober and help others, whereas the primary purpose of the group is to carry the message of hope to anyone who still suffers. Those suffering could include newcomers, someone returning from a relapse, someone on the brink of relapse, or anyone going through emotional, physical, or spiritual difficulties. The message of hope is that anyone can stop drinking and drugging, lose the desire to drink and drug and find a new way to live. What do we get out of this message individually? My sponsor, Art, explained to me the greatest gift of the program was not something he gained, but something the program took away- the desire and obsession to use drugs and alcohol. That obsession ruled my life for many years. When I stay focused on our primary purpose, I have the opportunity for a happy life every day I choose to focus on my recovery. By successfully staying clean and sober and helping others to do so, I feel connected to my Higher Power and life. I have hope and feel free, that is freedom from active addiction. With feelings of hope and freedom I can experience a sense of happiness like I’ve never known.